You're right, I don't care what other's think
Say hello to the girl that I am!
You're gonna have to see through my perspective*
I stuck in the waiting room with a senior I don't really want to be friendly with. XD. She is the kind of people who keeps bragging and complaining about her family. Not cool and I'm not interested. But, somehow she just keeps talking and can't read my annoyed expression. Well, part of being a psychologist, my friend, is that you're set to listen. That's our core competency. huh.
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I feel you, Jingrui |
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some people think marriage is the key to their happiness |
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well, that's true |
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what a punch line from How To Be Single (2016) a romantic movie without propaganda of getting married. |
Then, she comes with how hard her life feeding 3 kids from the previous marriage and the ex-husband keeps forgetting to transfer the monthly allowance. Well, for your information, when you remarried to another man, the ex-husband has no responsibility for your kids. Isn't it enough that she leave such a lame guy? Why would she want money from him?
I'm not so happy talking to people who has no positive feeling about what they have. You can't count what you don't have, that's what born into misery. Sharply I replied, "Everything comes with consequences". If you don't want to get bothered with kids, don't get married.
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i'm just not so motivated to be like others |
And she keeps talking about how her mother pushes her to remarried. It's hard for the old woman to have a widowed daughter. Well, I can totally understand. From my perspective, widows are often in a hurry to get a replacement of their ex-husbands. It's tormented for them to be alone, raising the kids in solo is never easy. One may can, but still not easy. So, compared to a maiden, widows are stressful creatures. People doesn't see those widow in a positive light. Prejudice. There's this negative image about widow which is flirty. Although, not everyone is like that. So, widow needs to be a wife as soon as possible if they want to be free from neighbors' gossips.
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so what if people think you're weird for loving what you love. You're the one who's happy and they're just left in confusion. |
But, seriously, what a pathetic way of life when you have to do something because it's what others people are doing. Remember, you are the one who lead the life, not the gossipers. And we only live once. So, I refuse to do anything that makes me unhappy. life is short, do things that create a smile in your face. Happy people is much better than grumpy ones.
I'm happy with what I am today. I think everything is just perfect.
I tell 'em what I like
What I want
What I don't*
*from Britney Spears' Overprotected
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