My guest room is full! I'm currently keeping everything inside: books, clothes and everything else. I hope nobody comes to MLN for the time being because I can't afford giving proper hospitality. lol

Every time I step into the room, I'm amazed of how many stuffs I have for the past 6 years living in my flat. Most of them are books, though. I remember leaving a lot to be thrown away before moving out. That was a lot of garbage! *Sorry, landlady had to take care the mess*.

Some clothes are still okay, but I decide to let them go because I haven't wear them for long. Nor I might gonna use them in the future. So, bye bye. Books are always for keep. However, I send some books I won't read again to my cousin to make sure someone take good care of them. Books are treasure for me.The fact that I haven't found good shelf maker is troubling. I need to make big shelf for my babies.

So, this letting go things actually making me feel better. Instead of hanging to old stuffs and melodramatic feeling, it's better to move on. It gives space to new things, new experience. And it helps making your soul refreshed.

The act of letting go is not only related to stuff. It also works on relationship. One of my friend reblogged nice words on tumblr saying:
If someone isn't worth your time, then let them go 
If they actually worth it, they'll come back to you
I think it's nice words. Wasting time with someone stupid or stabbing your back will only lead to your misery. Why spare your heart for people like that? I know it's not easy to leave someone. Leaving a friend (who turned out to be foe) is considered betraying. I think that's the challenge of friendship: to be able to decide whether you need to stay or stray. Everyone around us is a variable that influences how our happiness boosts. I tried to eliminate one variable and I'm feeling much better than before.Don't worry, this vacant variable is soon be filled by other variable. That's how amazing human is.