The Architect
I happen to stumble upon this personality test site and found my MBTI result, INTJ, is still standing strong.
Let's get straight to the Nature part which is saying that I prefer thinking more than the feeling when making a decision. Yes, facts and truths are more important than make sure people still love me after the debate. Seriously, we're trying to work on something, I can't let your personal stupidity stop us from doing great.
I know, most people think I'm emotional and sharp tongue. I just don't like wasting time spilling sweet talk to point out what I really feel/think. People can't get it right when we talk it straight forward, how can we expect them to understand when we're using complicated beautiful words? It might save the heart, but not the goal. Again, it only happen for INTJ people. Because we value outcome more than a relationship. We're okay with people saying bad stuff about us, deep down they know we finish the job. We're rough but competent.
There are a lot of opinions about How to deal with introverted (INTJ) people, but I'm gonna list those who fits mine at work.
You have to know that you made mistake
We can debate it, we can question it, but you have to admit it's your mistake (cos I will admit if it's mine) when you make one. I don't want to bear your responsibility. I don't like you take credit for my work and I won't be the shelter for your miss.
I expect you to work as hard as me
I want you to be punctual because I don't like people stealing my time. I won't steal your time too. When you plan meeting at 9, I expect you to arrive at meeting room 8.55.
When I work on my part, I want you to do your part, as well. Don't make me mad because I see you doing something else when everyone is busy. I can snap you sadistically.
You don't have to like me, but you have to finish the task (don't stand on my way)
Seriously, no matter how much you hate me, it doesn't matter. I don't really have time thinking about what you think of me. I'm not so low in self-esteem. But, I want you to stick to our plan. Be professional, don't let your stupid moodiness fails the team.
Don't tell me to be patient
I don't have the break. I'm always restless. I want everything to work fast and faster. You being slow is acceptable when we're strolling as a friend. As a coworker, get your ass to work more efficient!
I'm not mad when I'm silent
I'm an introvert, I don't like talking with a lot of people (Although, I'm very noisy when being with people I like. poor you, besties). So, it's common for me to be quiet, withdraw from the crowd, not participating in WhatsApp group's conversation. If I stop talking in the middle of our conversation, there are few reasons:
(1) your words hurt me, but I'm trying my best not to snap you back.
(2) your logic is not interesting. I don't want to be entrapped in stupidity
(3) I'd rather be somewhere else. I have other thought trails in my mind.
I'm not bossy, I just design what should we do
Going without a plan is stressful activity for me, even if we're just hanging out after work. If you don't want me to steer where we're going, come up with a plan, please. Don't say, "wherever" when I ask where do you want to go? I don't like making the decision for other people, and I'm so able to decide for myself. Sometimes, I just give into your way (which I regret it eventually), because we're going to wander aimlessly. I don't get these people, you don't want me to take control, but you're not able to lead anyway. huh.
My best friend used to say how I hurt her feeling when making teamwork, but she couldn't debate it because I'm doing my part well. She knew I was right and she should've done her part better. She just doesn't like the way I express her lack of discipline.
Well, INTJ is definitely a perfectionist at heart. Why would you do something unless it is great? we only live once, right?
I know, most people think I'm emotional and sharp tongue. I just don't like wasting time spilling sweet talk to point out what I really feel/think. People can't get it right when we talk it straight forward, how can we expect them to understand when we're using complicated beautiful words? It might save the heart, but not the goal. Again, it only happen for INTJ people. Because we value outcome more than a relationship. We're okay with people saying bad stuff about us, deep down they know we finish the job. We're rough but competent.
There are a lot of opinions about How to deal with introverted (INTJ) people, but I'm gonna list those who fits mine at work.
You have to know that you made mistake
We can debate it, we can question it, but you have to admit it's your mistake (cos I will admit if it's mine) when you make one. I don't want to bear your responsibility. I don't like you take credit for my work and I won't be the shelter for your miss.
I expect you to work as hard as me
I want you to be punctual because I don't like people stealing my time. I won't steal your time too. When you plan meeting at 9, I expect you to arrive at meeting room 8.55.
When I work on my part, I want you to do your part, as well. Don't make me mad because I see you doing something else when everyone is busy. I can snap you sadistically.
You don't have to like me, but you have to finish the task (don't stand on my way)
Seriously, no matter how much you hate me, it doesn't matter. I don't really have time thinking about what you think of me. I'm not so low in self-esteem. But, I want you to stick to our plan. Be professional, don't let your stupid moodiness fails the team.
Don't tell me to be patient
I don't have the break. I'm always restless. I want everything to work fast and faster. You being slow is acceptable when we're strolling as a friend. As a coworker, get your ass to work more efficient!
I'm not mad when I'm silent
I'm an introvert, I don't like talking with a lot of people (Although, I'm very noisy when being with people I like. poor you, besties). So, it's common for me to be quiet, withdraw from the crowd, not participating in WhatsApp group's conversation. If I stop talking in the middle of our conversation, there are few reasons:
(1) your words hurt me, but I'm trying my best not to snap you back.
(2) your logic is not interesting. I don't want to be entrapped in stupidity
(3) I'd rather be somewhere else. I have other thought trails in my mind.
I'm not bossy, I just design what should we do
Going without a plan is stressful activity for me, even if we're just hanging out after work. If you don't want me to steer where we're going, come up with a plan, please. Don't say, "wherever" when I ask where do you want to go? I don't like making the decision for other people, and I'm so able to decide for myself. Sometimes, I just give into your way (which I regret it eventually), because we're going to wander aimlessly. I don't get these people, you don't want me to take control, but you're not able to lead anyway. huh.
My best friend used to say how I hurt her feeling when making teamwork, but she couldn't debate it because I'm doing my part well. She knew I was right and she should've done her part better. She just doesn't like the way I express her lack of discipline.
Well, INTJ is definitely a perfectionist at heart. Why would you do something unless it is great? we only live once, right?
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