Ghosting: done that

The action has definition

This! This is the term you're looking for when I no longer text you, wave at you, ignore your existence, stop bothering to talk to you. Ghosting. This article from psychology today defines Ghosting, as having someone that you believe cares about you, whether it be a friend or someone you are dating, disappear from contact without any explanation at all. I've done that. I stop caring about two friends in the past and it feels like throwing scabies away.

It says being ghosted can hurt, especially for those with fragile self esteem. For many people ghosting can result in feelings of being disrespected, used and disposable. Nah, now that explains those Facebook and blog posts them asking why I stop interacting. Either they have no courage to ask what they've been doing wrong or they just afraid that I would spit their unfavorable behaviors, they took it to social media. Sad. Well, low esteem people are sad.

The article only wrote from the "victim's perspective", but just because you're being ghosted it doesn't mean you're not doing something wrong. I believe it was something you did that makes things don't work out between you and the ghost. Interaction works in two way. You can't claim being victim just because you have weak heart. I even believe it's the other way. Isn't it bully always feel the world is not fair for her/him? They make other people suffer, but they can't take it when things getting tough for them.

Why am I ghosting?

Simple reason: I don't like you anymore. I don't even want to waste breathe explaining to you why I don't want to be near you. Of course, your wrongdoings are kept inside my memory, I won't spill your sin to other people. I'll keep your pride, but you're not getting any respect from me any longer. It's over. You're like contagious disease I don't want to be close to.

My mom taught me to stay away from bad people. You learn so much from people associated with you, so pick your friend well. If I made poor judgement on you and I let you go, it's because I strive for better.

You did wrong to me and I just choose this "passive aggressive" option because throwing tantrum just suck my energy. Violence is just for those who can't find peace at heart. I cut you from my life and my mind, won't it be easier for me? And if you think I still need to take care of your heart after what you're doing to me, you are making big mistake. Cancer don't turn back after twice mistakes.

Have I been ghosted?

Psychology Today marks that ghosting is a common thing. However, I don't remember being ghosted at all. Perhaps there were people doing the same thing to me, but i just can't distinguish it. Is it because everybody is replaceable or i just don't care. If you want to pass through my life, be my guest, I won't stop you. Why would we feel hurt from who doesn't deserve to be in our life?